A. Холостяк #23 Colton Underwood

Максимилиан

У Колтона был сумасшедший уровень адреналина в тот момент, от него и неконтролируемая дрожь. И благодаря адреналину он легко перебросил свои 115 кг через двухметровый забор. Бедный Крис Харрисон, даже заматерился от неожиданности. ))

А я смотрю, у Касси самая длинная ветка на АФ.

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However, last night, instead of conflicts seeming to appear out of nowhere, we were instead subjected to sequels of the same ones we watched throughout the season. Even the arguments were the same, except louder and, unfortunately, simultaneous. Throughout the evening, there were many moments where, for straight seconds (and while a bemused Chris Harrison made no efforts to mediate), several voices shouting over one another produced a wall of sound. We literally couldn’t understand a single word, so loud and endless was the shouting.

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Don’t get me wrong, from a garbage-TV perspective, my brain was happy to shut off and let me consume the drama as I would empty calories. But from a where-are-they-now perspective, it was pretty unsatisfying. We didn’t get a single hug-it-out, water-under-the-bridge moment of resolution.

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“The only thing that was ever wrong with me was my belief that something was wrong with me.” (c)

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As is my tradition with Tell All episodes, I’ll touch on my Top 3 Most Memorable Moments…

Where There’s Smoke…

I’ve been a Caelynn supporter all season and I wouldn’t flip on a dime because some women didn’t get along her. That said, there are enough allegations stacked against her that collectively become impossible to ignore. First, given that we know a conversation between her and Cassie did occur (Katie’s long awaited side of this story confirms it was on the bus ride from the Singapore airport to their hotel),

it would have been better for both her and Cassie to have admitted to that conversation when they were first confronted about it. If words really were misconstrued, the only clarification needed would be what they remembered saying (or at the very least, what they meant), not simply denying it ever happened. Basically, what Caelynn said in response to Katie’s version of that bus conversation was something she should have said weeks ago when shit first hit the fan.

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“The only thing that was ever wrong with me was my belief that something was wrong with me.” (c)

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The thing is, Singapore was only episode 4. Neither Caelynn or Cassie had had their first 1-on-1 dates yet. Katie was right when she said Caelynn would have been within her right to say it was an innocent conversation to be having at the time. To me, this shows a reasonableness on Katie’s part, and it became clear her frustrations were (understandably) more about the deception than the actual crime.

Another thing to note is that, in terms of the rumours (hilariously coined by Chris Harrison as a “grenade” Katie rolled into the room as she departed), the bit about Cassie not being “ready” turned out to be entirely true. It’s hard to imagine a portion of this story being 100 percent true and the other portion complete and utter fabrication.

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“The only thing that was ever wrong with me was my belief that something was wrong with me.” (c)

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Again, I’ve been an avid Caelynn supporter and am not suddenly anti-Caelynn. I just sorely wish, for her own cause, she’d simply owned having had the conversation and shrugged it off as being early in the season, before she became as invested as she became.

That is both believable and understandable. Denying it ever took place, then scrambling to rewrite the transcript only makes you look more guilty, not less. Even if you’re NOT guilty.

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“The only thing that was ever wrong with me was my belief that something was wrong with me.” (c)

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Mirror, Mirror on the Wall… Who’s the Mature-ist of Them All?

I do think some of Demi’s words are too venomous and she generally retaliates too harshly.

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She tends to double down instead of taking the high road. I also imagine she could have been very challenging for quieter, shier personalities to live with.

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In the Demi vs. Courtney saga, a debate over which 23-year-old was more mature, I do think the ultimate in maturity would have been a resolution. However, it became very clear very quickly that that was not going to happen.
That said, here are things I have no patience for:
Talking without listening: Demi actually let Courtney finish her points before launching her counterattacks. Courtney never returned that courtesy.
Deflecting responsibility: Courtney never took responsibility for her actual beef on the show, which was never getting to spend actual quality time with Colton. But that was no one’s fault but her own.
Getting physical: NO MATTER what Demi said or did, walking up to another adult and shoving something in their mouth is not acceptable. Period.

Courtney may not be as loud or as bold, and she may not curse as much or do many of the things Demi does that she deems immature. But those are aspects of personality, not maturity. However, behavioural aspects, like those listed above, are aspects of maturity. Just saying.

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“The only thing that was ever wrong with me was my belief that something was wrong with me.” (c)

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Will You Accept This Crown?

Interestingly, while this felt like a cattier, louder, and more juvenile Women Tell All than usual, it somehow didn’t feel like the typical Paradise audition. (Well, except for Jane who surfaced from obscurity to have opinions on events she wasn’t present for.)

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“The only thing that was ever wrong with me was my belief that something was wrong with me.” (c)

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It almost felt like a Bachelorette audition to me, with the two pageant ladies, Caelynn and Hannah B, once again competing for a title.

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Caelynn took the more traditional, still-heartbroken approach, shedding a LOT of tears, a surefire way to garner sympathy and have viewers root for you.

However, while I’m not saying she shouldn’t have still been sad over Colton, I do wish she had moved on better. Considering, at the WTA taping, it had been 3+ months since the breakup (considerably longer than the relationship itself) and he had kept THREE women over her, it felt like her heartache was at about a 9 out of 10 when a 6.5 or 7 would have been more appropriate. Her state of turmoil didn’t feel congruous with this strong, powerful woman we’d gotten to know all season. It’s no one’s place (certainly not mine) to dictate how someone else should feel, especially when it comes to heartbreak, but I couldn’t help but wonder if her producer had encouraged this angle from her, eyeing a prize far more substantial than sympathy. That would make more sense to me than her still crying about a man who’d completely (and rather unapologetically) deceived her.

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“The only thing that was ever wrong with me was my belief that something was wrong with me.” (c)

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Meanwhile, Hannah B took the riskier but very compelling dust-yourself-off approach.

She didn’t have any questions for Colton (certainly not the dreaded “when did you know?”) and emphasized having moved on. And remember, Hannah B left only ONE WEEK before Caelynn. Both women fell “in love” with Colton and told him such. I know a Hometown is a big deal, but compare Caelynn’s distress last night to Hannah B’s considering it was a one week difference.

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“The only thing that was ever wrong with me was my belief that something was wrong with me.” (c)

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Hannah focused more on her own personal journey of self discovery and self love and learning to not “settle”. Given her painfully obvious insecurities early in the season, this was shining feel-good moment in an episode full of shouting and tears.

This, too, felt like a producer-encouraged approach, but a kinder one. Even if Hannah B is not crowned Bachelorette (something I have a hard time picturing after last night), her lasting impression on this season is one of self-assuredness and confidence, not one of heartbreak.

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“The only thing that was ever wrong with me was my belief that something was wrong with me.” (c)

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Дело даже не в этом. Колтон показал себя внимательным, понимающим, заботливым, поддерживающим парнем. Такие на дороге не валяются и на каждом шагу не встречаются. Он реально очень классный парень, которому она очень, очень дорога.
Понятно, что она сама никогда безответно не влюблялась, всегда добивались ее. Но, тем не менее, не стоит терять такого классного парня. Ведь он же ей не неприятен и даже не безразличен.
Прикольно было, когда он предлагал купить подходящие пижамки для ночевки. )))

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Ну как и обычно у F1.
Одна тетка ее там основательно недолюбливает, нo многим Касси нравится.
Хотя ожидалось, что после того как она отвергнет Колтона, на нее начнутся нападки.

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“The only thing that was ever wrong with me was my belief that something was wrong with me.” (c)

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“The only thing that was ever wrong with me was my belief that something was wrong with me.” (c)

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“The only thing that was ever wrong with me was my belief that something was wrong with me.” (c)

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Cassie's mother posted this today:

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“The only thing that was ever wrong with me was my belief that something was wrong with me.” (c)

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Episode 9

Tayshia: “I’ve never been on a helicopter before!”
Colton: “Really?!”

Only on The Bachelor.

LAST WEEK, CONT’D

We pick up at the tail of last week’s Rose Ceremony, where Colton has just returned after sending Caelynn home, toasted the ladies to hitting up Portugal next, and then suddenly disappeared for a Chris Harrison pow-wow. I made a .GIF of the conversation had by the women here for two reasons. First, their reactions to the Fantasy Suites feel appropriately disturbed given it is goddamn WEIRD to imagine ALL THREE of them having Fantasy Suites with the same guy and to be standing in a circle discussing it…

Second, note how Tayshia speculates that Colton leaving means he might want to talk to them. He was just with them yet presumably would need clearance before discussing something off script. One of thousands of examples of how the lead isn’t really in control.

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TAYSHIA’S 1-ON1

After their helicopter ride above Algarve, Portugal, Colton and Tayshia naturally must discuss their relationship post-Hometown and what better place to do so than sat on a bunch of jagged rocks…

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When Colton said the following, I wrote in my notes: “You don’t say this to someone if you don’t plan on proposing to them”...

… and that was BEFORE I saw how Cassie left, making Colton saying the above that much more messed up. I mean, I know the Bachelor has got to lead on his finalists to some extent, but sentences like the above if you don’t mean them just seem unnecessarily cruel.

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“The only thing that was ever wrong with me was my belief that something was wrong with me.” (c)

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In the evening, we’re treated to a surprisingly funny moment, the type normally reserved for closing credits. What I dug here is not only the realness of a contestant having a boob tape malfunction (because let’s be real: NO WAY is this the first ever mention of boob tape on this show—I alone must have gone through a year’s supply), but further, the meta-ness of Tayshia referencing potentially flashing the “whole world”…

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“The only thing that was ever wrong with me was my belief that something was wrong with me.” (c)

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Colton presents Tayshia with a Fantasy Suite card and it appears Chris Harrison has been attending the School of Comic Sans Handwriting…

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“The only thing that was ever wrong with me was my belief that something was wrong with me.” (c)

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Finally, while a ripoff of Ravel’s Bolero plays, we watch Tayshia and Colton get ready for sexy time. I had a giggle imagining those in the editing room amusing themselves with voiceover placement…

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“The only thing that was ever wrong with me was my belief that something was wrong with me.” (c)