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A. Холостяк #23 Colton Underwood

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Episode 6

“If it was right, it’d be a lot easier than it has been between the two of us.”
—Sydney dropping a #truth bomb, not only with this show but also in terms of real-life relationships

LAST WEEK, CONT’D

Episode 6 picks up with everyone heading into Episode 5’s Rose Ceremony, where it’s obvious to all that Onyeka and Nicole have dug their own graves and will likely be the two sent home. First, Nicole’s tears here support my thoughts from last week that she is crumbling in this environment…

I know her tears suggest her wanting to stay, but when I see uncontrollable tears like this, especially this early (meaning we’re not down to wire yet), I can’t help but think it’s in her best interest (for her sanity) that she leave.
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The ladies head to Vietnam where Hannah G finally gets her very own 1-on-1 date card. Of course, many ladies still haven’t had their own date yet and I’m sure wanted one, but it was still amusing how the scene was edited to make it seem as though they were all openly grumpy about Hannah G getting it. First, note Sydney’s laugh when Hannah G’s name is just called, yet her (and all of their) dour expression(s) a moment later…

Now listen to the same scene…
Clearly, the ladies were supportive of Hannah G getting this date, even cheering for her. The frowny faces could have been (and clearly were) taken from somewhere else. They’re “bored” faces used as “unhappy” faces, very likely from whatever forced Girl Chat conversation transpired before the date card even arrived.
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HANNAH G’S 1-ON-1

I really like Hannah G. She’s sweet and steers clear of drama, and I think the ladies’ positive reaction to her getting a 1-on-1 date, especially as far in as Episode 6, says a LOT. (In other words, she’s well-liked.) That said, this date BUGGED me, edit-wise. Why, oh why does this show think we care more about watching hot-and-heavy make-out seshes than actual conversations? It felt like a too-soon repeat of Cassie’s 1-on-1 (except not quite as uncomfortable as I had the foresight to watch it in the comfort of my Vancouver rental instead of in public this time). This was bothersome to me especially since we saw a Girl Chat where Caelynn insinuated there wasn’t much to Hannah G beyond her looks (I SO wish Caelynn hadn’t gone there but don’t forget how prompted those back-at-the-hotel Girl Chats are). Hannah G’s entire date was pretty much summed up by how attractive Colton finds her, and therefore she was never really given the redemption I feel she deserved. (Of course, the two do touch on and bond over both having divorced parents, but I still felt this was underdeveloped.)

In the evening, the focus is once again on their chemistry, even as Hannah G and Colton rehash their day. But notice Hannah G’s hand under her chin as she asks Colton what his favorite part of the day was….

It’s obvious “What was your favorite part?” was taken from somewhere else (and even could have been on a different topic altogether). Meanwhile, her hand position is the same for all of the shower discussion. They could have recapped many aspects of their day, yet the only thing shown to us as being their “favorite part”, of course, was making out in the shower. 🤦🏻*♀️
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Back at the hotel, Heather reads the Group Date card. I truly LOL’ed at Demi’s response to having her name called, meaning she wouldn’t be getting a 1-on-1 date in Vietnam…

She’s clearly half-joking, but what I appreciate here is the FRANKNESS. I would much rather a contestant just express an honest "damn it!” reaction like this and have it shown, rather than having reactions edited (as with the date card reading above) to make it SEEM like they’re all bitter when they’re actually not.
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Back on Hannah G’s date, something she said stood out to me…

I’m pretty sure I’ve pointed out before how huge a takeaway this was for me. It’s not that we don’t all spend time thinking about ourselves in our real lives (I actually think it’s a bit of an epidemic at the moment, truthfully). But, it’s rare that you spend AS MUCH time thinking and talking about yourself, with people who seem to really care about you and are invested in your feelings, as you do on this show. I’ve likened it to near-24/7 therapy for several weeks, even months. It’s both hugely informative and, in some ways, addictive.

I’m not lumping Hannah G in with this observation, by the way, I’m just going on a tangent. An overwhelming commonality I’ve found with fellow Bachelor alums is an element of self-absorption. It’s as though the more interested people become in you, the more interesting you feel you are. (Never mind the lack of talent, effort, or real accomplishment to support it.) Obviously, acquiring hundreds of thousands of Instagram followers almost overnight and them suddenly caring about you and your every move doesn’t help. You’ve just come off spending a long time being encouraged to talk about yourself all day, every day. You can see how it could bleed into your real life and spark a narcissism that may have been dormant before. I’m not claiming to have not fallen victim to this, either. I may have shared this before, but when I first left the show and got back together with my ex, I remember him gently telling me how wrapped up in myself I’d become. It was a �� moment. I was horribly ashamed and actively made a change. I refused to let myself become THAT person and am thankful to have had him and his honesty.
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GROUP DATE

The Group Date entails the ladies learning Vietnamese martial arts moves and then, naturally, having them physically fight each other for no good reason. And despite this show’s respectable budget, production apparently didn’t deem it necessary to spring for a judges panel table that actually fit…

I couldn’t resist.
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I couldn’t help but laugh when the host of The Bachelor: Vietnam commentated on the Vovinam battles in Vietnamese while poor Chris Harrison could only gamely nod along with an unconvincing I-can-completely-understand-what-you’re-saying face…
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The evening portion of this Group Date felt like it went on FOREVER. Seriously, I usually wish for more concrete 1-on-1 time between Colton and the ladies but this date had me thinking I should be careful what I ask for. Something that did stick out to me and that I did appreciate, however, was the conversation had between Tayshia and Colton. What was interesting was how it began; it almost felt like Colton sought Tayshia out to onload on her. Like, it felt like her needed a shoulder to cry on and an ear to vent to. But I LOVED how Tayshia had the strength, especially given Colton’s position of “power” as the lead, to lay down the law on reciprocation in their relationship…

This kind of ties into what I said above, where it can sometimes feel like people (not only Bachelor alums!) are all too willing to succumb to extreme self-absorption and let you play interviewer/shoulder-to-cry-on/therapist, perhaps because you naturally fill that role socially and are naturally curious about others (the way I strongly suspect Tayshia is). Tayshia stating the above is a BIG DEAL to me, not only because it’s something I wish I had the strength to do in a lot of real-life relationships, but also because I think it’s very telling as to what Colton may (or may not) provide. I’m not saying it’s guaranteed that he’s wrapped up in himself (it would actually be amazing if he’s not, given how the experience he’s in is custom-tailored to feed that tendency), but it’s certainly a clue.
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Later, with Sydney, I thought it was a pretty big deal to hear the lead himself say…

It’s a reminder of how, at the end of the day, even he is just a cog in a well-oiled, rigidly structured machine.
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