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Старый 03.08.2018, 21:19   #1151
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Bachelorette Becca Kufrin on Facing Her Exes at Men Tell All: 'You Can’t Pick Who You Love'

You’d think being 28 I’d be semi-used to having to confront my exes (see: unwanted Peruvian guest last year) but it’s still something I don’t think anyone, can prepare for. Heading into Men Tell All I was on-edge.
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As much as I was ready to see SOME of the men who came on this crazy adventure, I was still so nervous to see what was in store. Some of these men I truly fell for, some left on bad terms, and some hearts I broke…and I had no idea how they – or I – would react when we were on the same stage together.
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Now contrary to what people might think, I am not privy to any of the conversations that went down between the guys and Chris Harrison prior to me coming on stage.
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I came out blind to the drama that unfolded and felt like I was walking into the Lion’s den.

But the second I saw the guys again I had the weirdest feeling – comfort. I knew there would be some hard questions asked, but I had such a great group of guys and as soon as I saw their faces, I was reminded of what I loved about each one of them. I truly tried to treat every man on this journey how I would want to be treated, so I couldn’t imagine it being too tough. But did I speak too soon?
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Старый 04.08.2018, 01:21   #1155
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Seeing some familiar and not-so familiar faces again was exciting and strange. Even though I sent Joe home the first night, I was pumped to see him again. What most people don’t know is that I randomly ran into Joe back in June when I was in Chicago and had time to actually talk and get to know him better.
He is an amazing man who I’m glad to still have been able to meet. And speaking of familiar faces, Jake from Minneapolis was there for our 5th time meeting. Hi again, Jake!
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Старый 04.08.2018, 01:39   #1156
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Saying goodbye to Jason in Thailand was heart wrenching, and at that point in time I couldn’t really give him a straight answer as to why I was ending our amazing relationship. The only thing I could say was our relationship wasn’t as far along as my relationship with the remaining two men. Sometimes, you just have to follow your heart and can’t verbalize why you feel a certain way. If there is one thing I’ve learned it’s that you can’t pick who you love. Seeing him again, my only hope was that he understood why I chose to end things before spending a night with him.
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Старый 04.08.2018, 01:45   #1157
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To see him again and hear that he didn’t harbor any ill-will meant the world to me, especially when he mentioned he’d like to remain friends. We are rooting for each other’s happiness and he is someone who I’d also like to remain in my life. Probably the most awkward moment of the night was when Chris asked about Jason’s kissing skills. Another thing I can’t quite verbalize, but I still stand by what I say when I said he was one of the best. Sorry Mama Tartick!
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Старый 04.08.2018, 02:35   #1158
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Talking to Colton again about Tia and his virginity was something I looked forward to mainly because of the backlash that rippled through both of those topics. As strong as the relationship was that Colton and I had formed up until that point, it just couldn’t compare to the other three men. And even if she hadn’t pulled me aside that last day I still would have made the same decision. Another situation that I wanted to talk about was the way I handled the conversation when Colton opening up about his virginity. I said it in the Bahamas and again during Men Tell All, but him being a virgin wasn’t a negative thing for me.

I respected him for that decision and wanted to make sure I handled my response in the best way possible. Now, people can have their own opinions, but as long as Colton knows I took that bit of information to heart and really respected it, then that’s all that really matters.
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Старый 04.08.2018, 02:40   #1159
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Watching the comments back about what some of the other guys said to him on that stage irk me to no end, and I don’t believe anyone’s sexual experience should be held against them. If someone wants to be a virgin, then everyone should respect that. Colton’s virginity isn’t affecting any one of those guys so no one should have any cheap shots thrown his way.
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Старый 04.08.2018, 02:47   #1160
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Wills, as expected, killed it in the suit that evening.

Wills was another one of the harder goodbyes during this journey. Throughout my time with Wills, I always walked away from my conversations and time spent with him feeling like we were taking steps in the right direction. It was uncanny how many weird, unique similarities we had, and so I knew he took it very hard when our journey came to an end.
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Старый 04.08.2018, 02:52   #1161
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Wills has the biggest heart and feels things so fully, and having him ask me where things went wrong was difficult.
Nothing he did was wrong, and what my decision came down to on our last night was where my heart was pulling me. I admire and adore Wills and was so grateful that he came into this journey with such a good and open heart.
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Старый 04.08.2018, 02:56   #1162
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I was not prepared for the moment when Jean Blanc asked to come on the stage, and quite frankly, my stomach dropped with how this interaction would go. I obviously hadn’t seen him since that day in Utah where I began to question the men’s motives, and to be honest, I still don’t know if Jean Blanc really understands how he handled that situation.

Having him give me another bottle of perfume left me scratching my head a little, but I’m happy he apologized.
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Старый 04.08.2018, 03:05   #1163
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As much as I appreciated Jean’s apology, there was one more that blew all other apologies out of the water. Once again, Chris nailed it with the choir and the lyrics.

We all make mistakes, and Chris went out of his way to fix his in a really fun and charming way with humor and music which is kinda my thing. So Chris, apology accepted!
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Старый 04.08.2018, 03:29   #1164
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Now onto the one man who caused quite a stir this season…Jordan.

Who – no surprises here – showed up in his golden undies. Also, please don’t forget, I was the one who gave him those in the first place, so clearly it didn’t bother me that much. This journey is anxiety-filled, so to have someone there who could joke and give moments of levity was so needed for me. And, Jordan, I think I speak for Bachelor Nation when I say we need to see this acclaimed portfolio.
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Старый 04.08.2018, 03:32   #1165
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For a night that was filled with tears, laughter, tough questions and a walk down memory lane, it went way better than expected. I have nothing but gratitude for these men even though we went through one huge unconventional journey, and I wish them nothing but the best.

I wouldn’t change the weeks or overall experience for anything. These men taught me so much about them, about myself and about the world. Thank you to all 28 guys who came on this journey with me and brought so much vibrancy, and a little drama, to my life.
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I’d be dishonest if I didn’t say this was by far the most challenging, at times stressful, exciting and worthwhile thing I’ve ever done in my life. Though at times I questioned if this could actually work and if I was the best gal to take this on. On this journey I found myself, I found love, I found my partner and future husband, and I found a lifetime of beautiful, weird, heartbreaking, inspiring, and laughter filled memories. All of the support, love and kindness has blown me away since the start of this, so I owe Bachelor Nation a huge thank you from the bottom of my heart. Sending virtual hugs to everyone who had supported me along this endeavor!
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Next week is the last time I ever give out another rose, but it wasn’t easy getting there.

I knew I was in for an emotional rollercoaster, but nothing could have prepared me for what was to come. I’m left with a gut-wrenching goodbye and the harsh reality that I had to break someone’s heart in half.
Thanks for reading and supporting me through this crazy, whirlwind romance.
Xoxo,
Becca
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Старый 06.08.2018, 20:23   #1168
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“He Hasn’t Changed One Bit:” Sharleen Joynt on The Bachelorette: Men Tell All

Ahhh, I’m so happy! I have to admit I was dragging my feet in watching last night’s Men Tell All since this season has felt less and less compelling with each passing week. However, last night’s episode was legitimately fantastic. It had the golden ratios of drama and sentimentality and humour—not taking itself too seriously, and at the same time, not going too far on any front.
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Men knew when and how to simply and humbly apologize (major kudos to Chris for probably the best apology in Tell All history)

and there was a resolution (or at least a marked close) to most outstanding conflicts.
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Старый 06.08.2018, 21:08   #1171
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Though it might’ve been one giant Bachelor in Paradise audition, from our perspective, it didn’t FEEL like one.
Before getting to my Top 3 moments (my Tell All tradition), special homage must be paid to Becca herself.

This woman truly is such a class act. Last night she was kind without a hint of insincerity, easygoing without coming off flippant and on the whole, so gosh darn gracious.
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While her answers to the men with lingering questions were on the safe side (usually including some variation of following her heart), they did feel tailored to the men themselves and always prioritized their feelings.

It speaks volumes that when Chris Harrison asked the men if anyone had anything negative to say about Becca, the response was crickets. It’s not often a lead of this show can make it to the end with no bitterness in his or her wake. I’ll put it this way, since you guys know by now that I’m a big fan: If this were Survivor, Becca would win all those jury votes.
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My top three most memorable Men Tell All moments are…
3. Jordan Kimball: Unchanged for the Better

One of the stars of last night’s episode was indisputably Jordan, and it was obvious from the second he opened his mouth that he hasn’t changed one bit. It’s always interesting to see how people act after their season has aired, and it was clear that Jordan not only stood by his behaviour during filming, but also didn’t plan on kowtowing to his haters moving forward.
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I often applaud contestants’ ability to self reflect with all the feedback, but in Jordan’s case, I’m actually happy he doesn’t appear to have changed. It’s not that I think he’s perfect—Leo said it best when he called Jordan “a modern-day narcissist”

—or that Jordan couldn’t benefit from adopting some curiosity in others. It’s more that I think he’s got a true self love that I suspect he’s had to work hard to achieve, and a real “you do you” attitude that I admire.
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He is his own unique flavour which he totally stands by. He never targets others (he only retaliates when they pick a fight with him) and never hits below the belt (à la Jean Blanc with his cringeworthy virginity dig at Colton—if he was hoping to be better liked on this Tell All, he sure blew it with that line).
I agree with what Connor asked when some of the guys were getting riled up by Jordan’s antics: “If he wants to wear underwear and dig himself a grave, who cares?” EXACTLY. While Jordan may not be your cup of tea, if he’s not actively affecting you in any way, what’s it to you?

I see Jordan vs. His Naysayers as a microcosm for a lot of the hate in this world. His choice to prance around in gold underpants doesn’t mean YOU have to prance around in gold underpants. Live and let live.
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