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Старый 22.07.2018, 04:41   #1051
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She begins said farewell speech by thanking him for giving her what she asked of him (openness and honesty) but what she obviously didn't give to him in return since they were making out literally moments earlier... (his face really says it all, too)...

I find moments like the above extra interesting when it's with a Bachelorette (or Bachelor) that I love (Becca falls into this category) and who I think is a kind, good person. Like, to me, Becca is the poster child of good behavior, reasonableness, and class. Meanwhile, it's part of the lead's job to deceive many (if not most) of their suitors. There's a real dilemma there, so it's always interesting to see how someone (who you like and relate to) at the helm of her season and watch how she navigates this required deception. For what it's worth, I think Becca's doing a fine job of this (in my Flare recap I mentioned I don't think she gave Wills quite enough validation to warrant his extra strong feelings) and I imagine it's very difficult.
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Старый 22.07.2018, 04:45   #1052
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Finally, I just wanted to point out that we finally solved the mystery of the famous white-bamboo-in-enormous-white-vase ITM room! Remember, we've seen Pick-ups in this room from as early as Night One...
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Старый 22.07.2018, 04:48   #1053
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... and considering not only the amount of ITMs in this room this week but also the accuracy of their hair/makeup/jewelry, I'm pretty darn sure this is a Bahamas ITM room...
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Старый 22.07.2018, 04:49   #1054
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Старый 22.07.2018, 04:51   #1055
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Старый 22.07.2018, 04:52   #1056
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Старый 22.07.2018, 05:43   #1057
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“I Felt a Bit Sick Inside:” Sharleen Joynt on Episode 7 of The Bachelorette

I had two reactions to watching Wills‘s departure last night.

In fact, my first draft of this recap was about my first, immediate reaction: I felt a bit sick inside, watching in particular someone like Wills, one of those quieter, less extroverted, previously-been-heartbroken people. He clearly isn’t someone who opens up and falls in love easily, so to have opened up all the way only to have the rug pulled out from under him feels extra painful. Despite the fact that I objectively understand the premise of the show—every contestant minus one must be sent packing in one way or another—once in awhile there’s a breakup that just leaves you feeling a bit ickier than the others.
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Старый 22.07.2018, 06:06   #1058
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When I mulled it over more, though, I did the math on the Wills/Becca relationship: They had a natural, easy connection shown back in Episode 2 where he received the first Group Date rose (amongst framed-photo-throwing dramz).

He then received his own 1-on-1 date in Episode 4. That’s a reasonably strong start, sure. But then, on the Episode 6 Group Date, he told Becca he was falling in love with her and she gave the Group Date rose to someone else. This week, with three 1-on-1 dates to give out among six men, he didn’t receive one. My point is, Wills’s confidence in Becca and their relationship was disproportionate to the actual validation and encouragement he was getting from Becca, especially in these later weeks when he was suddenly falling so hard for her. If this isn’t evidence of how expertly designed the environment is to make its contestants—even its more reticent ones—collectively believe they’re falling in love with the lead, I don’t know what is. It also gives a glimpse into that producer encouragement. I have to imagine Wills was somewhat distraught over not getting a better response to telling Becca he was falling for her, but his producer very likely eased his worries, dismissed the importance of that Group Date Rose, and renewed his confidence in his relationship. There is a zero-percent chance this same producer truly believed Wills could be the one ending up with Becca. Wills was a lamb being led out to slaughter.
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Старый 22.07.2018, 11:07   #1059
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речь о Крисе. Когда был конфликт с Линкольном, на дебатах. Потом на вечеринке Линкольн настучал Бекке что Крис, типа, агрессивный. Потом пришёл Крис, говорит "is this a joke?" начал оправдываться. Она запуталась, и взяла паузу. А Гарретт потом высказывал Крису, что, типа, из-за тебя она в таком состоянии. А Крис ответил что-то типа "you are blaming me but I did nothing wrong". И я с ним полностью согласен. Та ситуация меня реально задела. Линкольн наврал про Криса, Крис себя защитил, но ценой сомнений у Бекки, и в глазах Гарретта: Крис виноват, потому что Бекка растроилась. Идиотизм.
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Старый 23.07.2018, 03:21   #1060
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OK.
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Старый 23.07.2018, 03:23   #1061
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It’s natural to blame production, the environment and individual producers for leading Wills to that state of vulnerability and subsequent heartbreak, but it’s interesting how, if this were a Bachelor season, I’m pretty darn certain the lead would have gotten some flak. In this sense, I do think there’s a bit of a double standard because, as far as I can tell, Becca hasn’t gotten any such flak despite being very much in on that deception. Let’s consider that final “dinner” on last night’s Group Date: Wills doubled down on his “falling in love” profession from last week and told Becca she makes him believe in love again, in a future, in having a family, in hope, happiness and kindness, and in being a great man. Those are some pretty heavy statements. Her response? To make out with him. A lot. Basically, through actions and not words, she led him to believe she felt the same way, only to make him wait what was likely at least another hour or two for the mini dinner table Rose Ceremony, where she gave the rose to Jason.
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Старый 23.07.2018, 03:27   #1062
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Let me be clear: I’m not blaming Becca here at all as we all know by now that leading the guys on is literally part of her job. I just would have liked for her to have sent Wills packing (or to have been allowed to send Wills packing) during this evening 1-on-1 time, or when he told her he was falling for her last week.
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Старый 23.07.2018, 03:39   #1063
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For his particular emotional journey, I feel he deserved special treatment, not the same pre-Hometowns send-off everyone gets.
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Старый 23.07.2018, 03:44   #1064
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Sharleen Joynt’s Top Four Following The Bachelorette: Episode 7
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Find someone who you can always laugh, be happy, and have fun with.
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It’s been real Bahamas, but the Beccster @bkoof and I are headed north of the wall, to Buffalo to meet the most important people in my life!
For the majority who aren’t from Buffalo, I apologize if my enthusiasm and continuous reference to the city is overzealous! That said, I hope the pride that I have for my city resonates with the pride you have for yours. Buffalo has taught me to be resilient and adaptable and has instilled on me the foundational impact and value of friends, family, and community involvement. We may attract blizzards, and endure tough Super Bowl loses (4 to be exact...in a row); but, we’re a community that does everything in its power to thrive as one. I am so honored and excited to showcase Buffalo, NY, to @bkoof on @bacheloretteabc . If you have as much pride as I have for Buffalo, let me know where your hometown is bc I’m coming to freaking visit! #onebuffalo #Buffalo #gobills
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