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Старый 12.07.2017, 08:09   #601
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Our helicopter ride up to the glacier and our dog sled ride was breathtaking.

I remember thinking nothing could take away from this moment.
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However, the more we talking about our relationship and how he was feeling, I felt the storm coming in — and it wasn’t just emotionally. During our conversation on the mountain we actually had to hold filming because of a crazy whiteout snowstorm that blew in.
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After spending the day on the glacier with Peter, I left with mixed feelings. He had admitted the connection I had with the other men made him unsure at times whether he would invite me to meet his family. It was a reminder that the men had the biggest decision of the season to make this week too. More so than accepting a rose, accepting me into their family’s homes was a leap of faith.
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I appreciated his honestly but more than ever I feared Peter would never be able to take the risks that one must take to get engaged on this journey.
My conversation over dinner that evening gave me more insight into Peter’s reluctance to say everything was going to work out for us in the end. He was blunt about his uncertainty about being ready to propose.

Watching how emotional he became while talking about leaving his ex-girlfriend told me that he was as afraid to break my heart as I was to have it broken. Yet when Peter looked into my eyes and told me he didn’t throw the word love around carelessly yet saw himself on the path to being in love with me, I felt assured it was worth it to risk to move forward to his hometown and see if we could get to that place together.
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Старый 12.07.2017, 23:01   #605
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The last date of the week brought Eric, Adam, Matt and myself to a château in France to determine who the final man to get a hometown would be.

We had already been all around Europe and I felt so grateful to continue to explore yet another country on this journey. There was also something very romantic about being in France to make the final decision; however, going into the day I was actually distraught. The concern that Adam and Matt would be upset with me that I hadn’t given them a one-on-one and we wouldn’t be able to get past that frustration to really see if our relationship held the potential for a hometown was a huge weight on me. I promised myself I wouldn’t let my irritation at the situation take away from the important conversations I was about to have. I don’t know if I could have kept that promise if Matt and Adam hadn’t been so strong.
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Старый 12.07.2017, 23:23   #606
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Matt was as sweet as ever when we spoke and respected the difficult decisions I had made when dividing up my time between the men that week. As I spoke with Matt I realized that he never gave himself the time that he needed to allow himself to pursue me unrestrained. Maybe he was just nervous, or it was the environment? But in reality, he hadn’t been able to get there yet and there were times when he would pull back or tread water with me.
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I sobbed saying goodbye to Matt because he reminded me so much of myself. For a moment I remembered what it was like when I was back in Finland after Nick just broke my heart and knowing Matt was experiencing something similar just broke me down. Yet Matt, the gentlest soul I ever knew, somehow ended up comforting me during our goodbye.
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Старый 13.07.2017, 00:45   #608
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My goodbye with Adam later was equally difficult. Although we hadn’t had much one-on-one time together, he always made the most of the time we did share. In the beginning I felt some of his efforts to convince me we had something special felt forced. But that night, looking back on our time together, I knew his creative and thoughtful efforts were genuine. He always put forth the effort and could without a doubt make me laugh. Our feelings were just in different places and I wasn’t sure more time could bring us together.
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This journey brought me some men I will never forget, and Adam is certainly one of them. I am a person that does not live with regrets; so saying goodbye to them was bittersweet. They are both amazing men and I know that they’ll both make women very happy one day.
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Старый 13.07.2017, 02:07   #610
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My saving grace after those two goodbyes was having Eric waiting for me, confident and ready to take me back to Baltimore even after sharing how difficult his family situation was growing up.
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Старый 13.07.2017, 02:38   #611
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I knew the next week ahead was going to give me so much insight into Peter, Dean, Bryan and Eric and how they became the amazing men they are today. I was truly honored they had accepted my roses and agreed to let me into such an intimate part of their lives knowing many of them had never really brought a woman home to meet their families.

The hometowns next week are truly unbelievable. Some are splendid, others are more perplexing than anyone could have imagined and each will show a much a deeper side of these guys.
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Старый 13.07.2017, 02:43   #612
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Dean’s unorthodox hometown proves his restrained relationship with his father to be just as challenging as he’d been preparing me for. However, I found myself unaware of what had really been brewing under the surface that evening. Not until watching back did I see just how emotional that night really was.
Next week poses more questions than ever. Will Peter finally say the word love or will Eric or Dean be the next to go all in? You’ll see it all next Monday when we take it back to the States.
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Старый 13.07.2017, 02:58   #613
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lol, хорошо знать что я не один. Go Team Peter!
далеко не один!
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Старый 13.07.2017, 03:19   #614
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Sharleen Joynt on The Bachelorette: Episode 7

In Week 7, with Hometowns “around the corner” (as they say), if you haven’t already had a 1-on-1 date, things aren’t looking good for you. Even Catherine from Sean’s season, the paragon of Bachelor dark horses, had her date in Week 6. I understand that Adam and Matt probably had some degree of attraction or affection towards Rachel, but it’s hard to imagine their keenness would be as strong if it weren’t for the competition- (thus ego-) and TV show-factors. The way they each asked Rachel some version of, “But can you still see yourself with me?” on that 3-on-1 was painful. I’ve said this before when the gender roles were reversed and I’ll say it again now: The second Rachel gave a second 1-on-1 to Bryan instead of a first 1-on-1 to either Matt or Adam, when she’d ostensibly be meeting their parents a week later, they should have walked (or at least checked out emotionally).

Rachel is wonderfully—almost brutally—transparent (in Andy’s words while watching: “She’s not a great bullshitter”) and she gave them the information they needed to know in that moment.
Therefore, I can’t help but believe that Adam’s inflated sense of confidence was at least somewhat enabled by his producer. Of course this is done season after season, but think back to other examples of overconfidence from this season alone. Will, heading into his fateful 1-on-1, declared with a huge smile, “I feel confident.” Or Josiah, heading into the the Rose Ceremony where he’d go home, “My confidence is at an all-time high. I. Feel. Good.” In Adam’s case this week, “I’m excited to take her home next week. It’s a done deal.” What better television is there than watching someone have the rug pulled out from under them?
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Старый 13.07.2017, 03:30   #615
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Personally, I don’t remember ever feeling very confident in that environment, despite (in retrospect) having decent reason to be. I can remember only one Rose Ceremony where I didn’t already have a rose where I felt I’d be truly surprised to go home. I have to wonder if confidence is intentionally equalized by producers; let the clear frontrunners roll with their shadows of doubt, but boost morale in those who are obviously at the back of the pack. I don’t actually know the answer to this, I’m just hypothesizing. But in terms of keeping all the contestants emotionally invested and on their toes, it doesn’t not make sense.
All this said, despite the fact that giving Bryan his second 1-on-1 was clearly a lightning rod designed for instantaneous house drama, I was all about it. Sure, it’s not fair, but with the premise of this show being what it is, it makes complete sense. I like that Rachel wasn’t fair and was—to use her word—”selfish.” Once again this season, her actions didn’t insult my intelligence as a viewer.
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My predictions for Hometowns are as follows…

1. Bryan, 37: At this point it’s almost too obvious that she picks Bryan. I’m sure we’ll be taken on some doubt-inducing journey, but these two are just light years ahead of the others, including Peter. I liked how their conversations extended into deeper territory this week, like how their personalities complement each other and the pitfalls they each had in past relationships. I also love how their conversations are a two-way street. It’s not just her asking questions and him answering; he seems every bit as invested and curious about her as she is about him.
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2. Peter, 31: I looooved Peter’s honesty this week. It takes confidence to admit a lack of confidence, particularly to the point of contemplating bailing altogether, and that honesty just made him more credible all around. I definitely don’t see Peter proposing unless he really means it. The one thing I didn’t quite get was his ex story. The fact that he was so teary-eyed made me wonder if something terrible ended up happening to the woman. But nope, they were just residual tears, and not from being heartbroken, but from hurting someone else several years ago. That had Andy and I raising our eyebrows, and in fact, we rewound twice to see if we missed something. Turns out we didn’t, and in the end I still had a lot of questions. What was missing from that relationship? Why couldn’t he give her his all?
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3. Eric, 29: Okay, so it’s definitely a concern that Eric was the one 1-on-1er to be lumped with the two non-1-on-1ers. As Peter put it during a Man Chat, Eric has the most reason to be concerned; what did Bryan, Dean, and Peter do or have that he didn’t? But what has Eric ahead of Dean on this list is the fact that he excels at talking about his feelings, her feelings, all the feelings, which Dean evidently struggles with. And in Hometowns, those feelings and discussions about them are important. I love the understanding and care between these two and can see a legit long-term friendship here.
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Старый 13.07.2017, 05:05   #619
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Going home next week…

4. Dean, 26: Sweet Dean. I love watching him on my television. I love his ever-so-human deflection with humour and laughter, and how considerate he is; instead of rejoicing at getting the 1-on-1, he thoughtfully and immediately addressed Matt and Adam. He is also, from what I can tell, a damn good kisser. But I’m sorry to say I’m seeing it less and less between him and Rachel as a couple. When Rachel zeroed in on his inability to talk about his emotions, he just seemed really, really—for a lack of a better word—young. I get that his family life is not what he wishes it were and had been, and his insecurity about that is totally understandable. But they just don’t seem in the same place in terms of readiness for true partnership and marriage.
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Там был момент в анонсе остатка сезона где Рэйчел говорит об избраннике "I hope he hasn't had a change of heart" и подобная формулировка мне кажется сильно намекает на Питера. Учитывая all the reassurance которое Брайан даёт Рэйчел достаточно сложно поверить что это может быть о нём. История с Питером, с его неуверенностью и сомнениями, вписывается сюда идеально.
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Там был момент в анонсе остатка сезона где Рэйчел говорит об избраннике "I hope he hasn't had a change of heart" и подобная формулировка мне кажется сильно намекает на Питера. Учитывая all the reassurance которое Брайан даёт Рэйчел достаточно сложно поверить что это может быть о нём. История с Питером, с его неуверенностью и сомнениями, вписывается сюда идеально.
Браян пока единственный, кто признался ей в том, что влюбляется и хочет быть с ней. Питер пока ни в чем не уверен, если только у него появится уверенность во время романтических ночевок. А так пока ему еще нечего менять и мама его сказала, что не факт, что он готов жениться. Так что со стороны Питера сплошные непонятkи.
Вот его бывшая деушка, красивая пара:
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Рэчел была влюблена в финале в одного и мне кажется это Браян, она просто вся светится, когда его видит:
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