Американский Холостяк #21 Nick Viall

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“The only thing that was ever wrong with me was my belief that something was wrong with me.” (c)

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“The only thing that was ever wrong with me was my belief that something was wrong with me.” (c)

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“The only thing that was ever wrong with me was my belief that something was wrong with me.” (c)

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“The only thing that was ever wrong with me was my belief that something was wrong with me.” (c)

barish

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“The only thing that was ever wrong with me was my belief that something was wrong with me.” (c)

barish

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“The only thing that was ever wrong with me was my belief that something was wrong with me.” (c)

barish

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“The only thing that was ever wrong with me was my belief that something was wrong with me.” (c)

barish

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“The only thing that was ever wrong with me was my belief that something was wrong with me.” (c)

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“The only thing that was ever wrong with me was my belief that something was wrong with me.” (c)

Cheerio

Слышал Чэд заигрывает с Корин. Идеальная пара.

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- I thought I knew what to do. I failed.
- Good. Now go fail again.

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Я их "спарила" еще в начале сезона.
Она сказала, что они друзья.
В нем заинтересована Алексис, сказала, что когда ее пригласят в ВР она хочет встречаться там с Чадом, он вроде пока один утвержден на участие в нем.

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“The only thing that was ever wrong with me was my belief that something was wrong with me.” (c)

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Episode 9
The only thing worse than watching a super boring episode is recapping a super boring episode. And the less excitement I have to pick things apart, the more I procrastinate. Sorry for this recap's lateness;*I deflect blame and am placing it squarely on this week's (blessedly half-length) episode.
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ANDI'S VISIT
I know there were mixed feelings about Andi showing up, but in all honesty I saw this segment as this week's saving grace. Like, sure, it seemed totally staged, Nick didn't appear remotely surprised to see her, and the "advice" undertones were forced at best. However, I'm always for any situation where the lead isn't in complete control, and this fit that bill. What I like is that Andi has nothing to gain by "sucking up" (to use Corinne's term) to Nick, and that in and of itself normalizes things somewhat...

These two can shoot the shit and sort of tease each other, which I feel like we haven't seen for awhile on this season. And no, Raven and Nick debating irons vs steamers—a conversation so mind-numblingly mundane that it made me want to take back every statement I've ever made about wanting more "real" conversation—does not qualify as shit-shooting in my book.

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As I said in my The Morning After video, I wish there'd been more about how Nick could now relate better to Andi; that wasn't fleshed out AT ALL which annoyed me as one would think it could be the main point of her visit. Also, I did unfortunately feel like the "advice" bit felt like shoving a round peg into a square hole. What in the world does Nick's now-infamous "if you weren't in love with me why did you make love to me" from 2.5 years ago have anything to do with, much less affect his ability to fall in love now? This line...

... struck me as very forced as one could argue that Andi, of all former leads, is evidence of this entire experience—romantically speaking—NOT working out. I just wish they'd called a spade a spade with this segment: a ratings-driven scene just for hell of it, featuring the first Bachelorette Nick was ever seen on TV courting and with whom he still has good chemistry and banter, and just be about two friends catching up and relating on something very few of us could. I have no issue with any of those reasons, and they all insult my intelligence far less.

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“The only thing that was ever wrong with me was my belief that something was wrong with me.” (c)

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ROSE CEREMONY

What can I say? My feelings on Corinne going home can be summed up with a massive shrug. I didn't see Corinne making it to the very end of this thing, but along the way I would have expected some sort of explanation as to WHY she stayed this long (I believe she's the first contestant to ever get a Hometown without ever having a 1-on-1?),*and additionally this week, WHY she was going home. Anyone with half a brain knows Corinne's presence was milked since she's good television, but where was the cursory "I like you so much, BUT..." speech? If we're to "believe" that Nick and Corinne had some inexplicable connection (which, again, based on the fact that she made it so far with so little 1-on-1 time, we'd have to "believe"), all the more reason why we'd need the barest bones of an explanation upon her elimination. Nick only insisting that Corinne did and said nothing wrong before sending her on her merry way does not suffice. We needed a simple but clear, "I really love A, B, and C about you, but because of X, Y, and Z, I just don't see a future with you", just for the facade's sake! UGH.

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RAVEN'S FANTASY SUITE 1-ON-1
Dissing this episode aside, I really do like Raven. Much like last week when she told her mother that it was through “the grit of her teeth” that she said she loves Nick, Raven has a way of addressing this show’s clichés but with a knowing laugh, like she’s fully in on it and kind of can’t believe she’s saying what she’s saying.
Exhibit A:

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Exhibit B:

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“The only thing that was ever wrong with me was my belief that something was wrong with me.” (c)

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The one spot where Raven drops the ball is in trusting her producer to the point where she talks orgasms (or lack thereof) on camera, and likely several times. Like I said in my The Morning After video, I have NO issue with Raven’s sexual history (since it’s none of my or anyone else’s business),*but rather that the show would exploit this incredibly personal tidbit. It’s like the virgin thing, circa Chris Soules’ season, but the 2.0 version.*I respect and can relate to her candor, but this is something that a woman might share with a close girlfriend, and call me a prude but I can’t imagine anyone being 100% OK with it being used on national television as a plot point. Something about the way Raven says it, too, is like it’s been brought up several times…

There's no laugh, grin, or even the faintest twinkle in her eye as she says something so personal, and it's outside in the cold where you know they weren't suddenly delving deep into sex talk.*You can tell she was prompted to say that.

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“The only thing that was ever wrong with me was my belief that something was wrong with me.” (c)

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The evening conversation looks very much like the daytime conversation, except that Nick has unwisely chosen a highly distracting (both for us and for him)*turtleneck...

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... and that Raven finally comes out and tells Nick she loves him. (There was a lot of build-up around this, but um, did she not let some version of ILY slip in Episode 5?) My favorite part of this conversation was how Raven vaguely gestured the cameras when saying this profession of love was "a lot" for her, and also how openly and adorably stressed out she was by it all...

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The two retire to their Finnish Fantasy Suite, because the only thing more romantic than the possibility of witnessing the northern lights is reindeer hides...

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... in every room...

Random personal culture shock moment: I have been to Helsinki once and it is the most reindeer-ific,*fur-obsessed place I've ever been. Like, in my world, reindeer are super cute animals known for pulling Santa's sleigh. In Helsinki, it's all reindeer sandwiches and hides.
Because episodes are now completely amorphous,*with no beginning or end, we're left with a very depressing, grasping-at-straws cliffhanger of, I suppose, the question of whether or not Raven will get "fireworks" in the Fantasy Suite, because nothing is sacred or private anymore. I feel dirty.

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“The only thing that was ever wrong with me was my belief that something was wrong with me.” (c)

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“The only thing that was ever wrong with me was my belief that something was wrong with me.” (c)

barish

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“The only thing that was ever wrong with me was my belief that something was wrong with me.” (c)

barish

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“The only thing that was ever wrong with me was my belief that something was wrong with me.” (c)

barish

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“The only thing that was ever wrong with me was my belief that something was wrong with me.” (c)