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Старый 28.07.2016, 03:20   #751
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Wouldn’t that be glorious? A dismissal where, instead of vague excuses about openness and timing and other relationships being “further along,” we got something resembling the truth? Maybe a “I find you really attractive but your personality bores me to tears,” “I think you may be an alcoholic,” or “I like you fine but envisioned my Night In Shining Armour having a different job/background/status”? Or, a breakup reason I’ve actually used: “I like you but think we’re sexually incompatible.” (I’ve never been one to beat around the bush, evidently.) The thing is, there’s no way these reasons haven’t been THOUGHT over the Bachelor/ette years. It makes me wonder: Is this a product of how we as a culture actually let people down (easy) or is it to keep the show sterile and peachy? (Notice how every dumpee seems expected to be understanding and gracious, leaving with an amicable hug.) Of course, chalking a breakup to an a-ha moment keeps the lead from looking like a bad guy, leading his/her contestants on until the last minute. But I can’t help but fantasize about a season where we get breakup reasons that are halfway believable. Luke’s dismissal will haunt me in that regard.
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Старый 28.07.2016, 03:34   #752
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My predictions for the Finale…

1. Jordan, 27: I can’t be the only one who thinks this isn’t even a contest. JoJo looks at Jordan with that soft-focus gaze between lovers in old movies; he’s her pick and I feel like that’s been obvious for ages, possibly since day one. Beyond JoJo’s clear affection, though, I love the specificity with which Jordan described his feelings for JoJo this week. Remember how last week I bitched and moaned about Robby’s lack of descriptive words as to WHY he loves JoJo? It’s as though Jordan heard my gripe because, boy, did he deliver in this department:

“I just love the person she makes me when I’m with her.”
“I love how she challenges me and makes me want to be a better person. I hope I can continue to be that kind of person for her.”
“Our attraction to each other, how much fun we have together, how I can be myself with her…”
“My intention is that this is going to be a team effort.”

Beyond all that sweetness, I like how most of his gushing was not to JoJo’s face. She did prompt him, asking him, “How do you know [when you’re in love]?”, but while he did tell her, the bulk of his affections were shared in his ITMs. I like this because, as I’ve expressed before, I’ve got some issues with the extreme inequality between the lead and the contestants. When JoJo prompts her men to open up, of course they will (they must!), because she’s not only in the position of power, but she also has the mystique of power on her side. The fact that Jordan shares these (specific) thoughts not only to her face shows that they’re sincere; he’s not using them to get ahead.

All my theorizing aside, there’s a naturalness to JoJo and Jordan that can’t be beat. It’s Jordan. She picks Jordan.
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Старый 28.07.2016, 04:11   #753
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2. Robby, 27: First, I really liked how both JoJo and Robby addressed the short time in which he claimed to fall in love. Frankly, just addressing and recognizing that issue gave it some degree of legitimacy. Robby still didn’t come through on the specificity front this week (even apprehensive Chase outshone Robby in this department) but I still warmed to Robby a bit. I’ve decided I’m pretty sure he’s sincere—whether or not “sincere” is my “sincere” is a different story—and truly believes what he’s saying. I just reeeeally wish Robby didn’t use (or sell out and use) lines like, “Tonight I don’t have to dream about JoJo, I get to dream with JoJo.” (Cue one of my dad’s groans.) On the whole, while I could probably see them being friends, I still just don’t buy the chemistry between JoJo and Robby.
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Старый 28.07.2016, 11:48   #754
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“I love how she challenges me and makes me want to be a better person. I hope I can continue to be that kind of person for her.”
вот именно. Ему нужно постоянно стараться быть better person. Когда он устанет, всё пойдёт коту под хвост.
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Старый 29.07.2016, 02:57   #755
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The Bachelorette's JoJo Fletcher on Finding Closure as She Heads Toward a Proposal

I was so excited going into this night, because after all, this is my first Tell All! I hadn't seen any of these guys since the show, and I really missed this group. I couldn't wait to see them. But as we know, Men Tell All is all about the men, so I missed everything before I came out towards the end. I mean I cannot believe some of the stuff I missed. Talk about JUICY!
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So let me just start out by saying it's crazy when you see these recaps of the season in a cohesive montage. You know, I feel like I focused so much on my relationships that I missed the combative energy that seemed to be flying around between these guys. I can't believe how much I missed that had been going on in the house! I had no idea about half of these feuds. I honestly just assumed it was all Chad-related, but man was I wrong. It's hard for me to be able to comment on these feuds since I wasn't around for them. I have a lot of respect for Alex and Derek, and I just hope the best for them both.
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Старый 29.07.2016, 03:10   #757
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Старый 29.07.2016, 03:13   #758
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Now let's talk about Chad.

Just like you guys at home, I was eager to see what he had to say for himself. First of all, the drama of Chad dating Robby's ex and Grant's ex after the show really has nothing to do with me. It just solidifies the fact that Chad is more about attention than he likes to lead on ... which is saying a lot.
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Старый 29.07.2016, 03:16   #759
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Also, OH-EM-GEE, Saint Nick! I cannot believe he jumped up and challenged Chad. Santa came out of winter hibernation! But I really don't support physical violence.
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Старый 29.07.2016, 03:22   #760
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Which brings me to Chad and Evan. When Chris Harrison pulled the ripped shirt footage, I was on the edge of my seat. I have to admit, it doesn't look good for Evan here … but no matter what, violence is never the answer to any conflict. And that goes for both of them.
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Старый 29.07.2016, 03:26   #761
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Someone who I really thought spoke eloquently was Wells. Hearing him try and reason with Chad, and speak about all the other drama made me remember just how great this guy is. I think the ladies in Paradise this summer are in for a treat with this guy! He really is such a catch.
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I hadn't spoken to Luke or Chase since our goodbyes during the season. Those were two of the hardest moments of my life. I know for me, seeing Ben again at After the Final Rose brought back a lot of emotion, but it felt really great to get that closure.
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Старый 29.07.2016, 03:34   #763
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I have nothing but admiration for Luke and Chase. I came into this night really looking forward to speaking with them for the first time in months.
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Having Luke talk about our relationship was really touching. Our time together was really special and to hear he still loves me, it fills me with a ton of emotion. But to think I had something to do with him being able to open up again, and knowing he can be vulnerable – I don't regret anything with him. I'll always have a place in my heart for Luke.
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It still pains me to see Chase still so confused and clearly hurting from that last night we spent together. To finally be able to talk with Chase, after all this time, it felt like we were finally closing that chapter. It was nice to be able to talk it out together and give him the answers he's been looking for, and it also give me peace of mind that we were okay. I stand by the decision that I made in Thailand. But to this day it doesn't make it any easier. I care for him so much and always will.
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Being able to talk with the rest of the guys was awesome. I didn't waste my breath on Chad then, and I wont do it here now! But I will say, seeing the guys again really made me miss our time together.
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Being the Bachelorette was challenging at times, but it was so rewarding and it remains one of the best experiences of my life. And I mean come on, to finally meet Vinny's mom?!

Talk about a treat. That is one great man she raised. I really love these guys, and they all deserve to find an amazing love of their own
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I can't believe in one week this journey is coming to and end. With just one episode left, I can't thank you all for standing by my side. Being the Bachelorette has been one of the most amazing experiences of my life. Next episode was one of the most rewarding but challenging times in my life. Love isn't always easy, especially when you find it with two people. I really went through a lot of heartache making the choices I did. But that's all I can say for now … I'll see you guys next week!

I can't end this just yet without talking about my summer watch list! Guys, I don't know about you, but Bachelor in Paradise looks CRAZY this season! I can't wait to watch my friends from Ben's season, and the guys from my season hopefully find love! And from what I've heard, you won't want to miss it.

Xoxo,
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