Bachelor in Paradise

Cheerio

Какая репутация у Джоша после разрыва с Энди, кто-то в курсе?

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- I thought I knew what to do. I failed.
- Good. Now go fail again.

Cheerio

читал об одном исследовании. В лице выделили черты, которые являются masculine и feminine. Потом с помощью компьютерной графики сгенерировали кучу примеров, и показывали их подопытным. Параллельно их тоже протестировали (не помню как) на маскулинность и женственность. Так вот. Маскулинным мужчинам нравились женственные женщины, и наоборот. У маскулинных женщин, в свою очередь, предпочтения были менее однозначны. Но исследователи заметили, что некоторые прямо признавались, что маскулинные мужские лица казались им unapproachable, потому они часто выбирали более "реальный" вариант.

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- I thought I knew what to do. I failed.
- Good. Now go fail again.

barish

Энди написала книжку, в которой описала их жизнь и сказала, что Джош горячий парень и закатывал ей скандалы, во многом ограничивал, обзывал шлюхой. Заклеймила его эмоциональным абьюзером. Вот на эту книжку и будет ссылаться Эван в следующей серии...
Джош же говорит, что в книжке неправда, Ник сказал, что если про Ника написана вся правда, то почему про Джоша все неправда? Короче, тут Шарлин об этом тоже пишет, сейчас запощу...
Среди фанатов раскол, многим Энди не нравилась изначально, но после ее рассказов о Джеше его репутация подмочилась. Некоторые так и пишут, что хоть никогда не были поклонниками автора, но нет дыма без огня и то, что написано о Джоше, если это хоть насколько то правда, совершенно неприемлемо! Переживают за Аманду.
Мне нравился Джош в сезоне Энди, но после их последнего появления вместе мне он перестал нравиться, мне очень не понравилось тогда как он говорил об их отношениях. Посмотрим реакцию Джоша на действия Эвана, такой ли контролирующий Джош как о нем говорят? Потом, Аманда может оказаться менее свободолюбивой, чем Энди. Вот такой твит был в начале отношений Аманды с Джошем oт Editor-in-Chief, @YahooTV:
Kristen Baldwin ‏@KristenGBaldwin
Amanda: "So, are you an emotionally abusing hothead like @AndiDorfman said in her book?" Josh: "Nope!" Amanda: "Good enough for me!" #BiP

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“The only thing that was ever wrong with me was my belief that something was wrong with me.” (c)

barish

Я запостила вот этот твит на АФ в свое время...

Kristen Baldwin‏@KristenGBaldwin
"What brought you to Paradise?" "Well Chris, no one has paid attention to me since 2015." #BachelorInParadise
на него поставили много плюсиков... :meeting: ...я тоже такого же мнения...
но посмотрим дальше как Джош себя покажет. В Холостяцком Раю людей хорошо видно... :rolleyes:

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“The only thing that was ever wrong with me was my belief that something was wrong with me.” (c)

barish

Sharleen Joynt on Bachelor in Paradise: Episode 3

In case three hours a week of Bachelor in Paradise isn’t enough, After Paradise really knows how to overdose. On one hand I do appreciate an aftershow’s ability to have people return, speak their peace, and possibly do a little image damage control.

But having so many contestants appear in what seemed to be like a reverse clown car took away from each person’s quality time. But I digress. There are more important topics on which to spend my mental energy. SUCH AS…

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“The only thing that was ever wrong with me was my belief that something was wrong with me.” (c)

barish

Since yesterday’s recap I’ve had people comment, tweet, and even email me about my having not mentioned the Nick-Josh-Amanda love triangle. It struck me how people are so curious about this particular storyline considering “love” triangles occur on this show all the time. In fact, the very structure—where folks come at later intervals to “stir the pot” and tempt those already attached (this show is SOOO Temptation Island, circa 2001!)—is designed to create love, um… shapes (including but not limited to triangles). I understand viewers’ curiosity due to the history between Josh and Nick from Andi’s season (more on that in a bit), but neither Josh nor Nick seem to be dwelling on that. Sure, Josh makes an indelicately timed comment now and then about how great he and Amanda are, but it’s nothing out of the ordinary for this show. And Nick is a true water-under-the-bridge person, in life and on TV; he doesn’t want to hold grudges and just wants to move on. Yes, I agree that a short, courteous conversation with him might have been more sensitive on Amanda’s part, but this is Bachelor in Paradise! People hang out with crabs, go on dates with multiple people, don’t have conversations, and proceed to make out with whomever they want, whenever they want, ALL THE TIME.

I guess my point is, hate the game, not the players. Amanda has done no worse than many contestants on this show, and Nick has taken it way better than most. There’s no story here.

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“The only thing that was ever wrong with me was my belief that something was wrong with me.” (c)

barish

Then I have to remind myself that the plot thickens. I am very close with Andi Dorfman, whom you all know is the last lady Nick and Josh co-dated on television. Andi recently wrote a tell-all book where she describes Josh in not the most flattering of lights. I’m also friends with Nick, who gets along great with boy Andy (yes, I regularly have to differentiate between girl Andi and boy Andy) and who, for the record, is an awesome third wheel for East Village ramen and dancing the night away. Seeing as how I don’t know Josh past having met him twice briefly, I can’t and won’t comment on him beyond that. And while I’ve never met Amanda in person, she’s only ever been a complete sweetheart to me via DM, and you’ll notice no one, man or woman, has one negative thing to say about her (which is huge—YUGE!).

Regarding Andi’s book, in the same way all the ladies on After Paradise were Team Jomanda (can I do that?) to the extent that they were #TeamAmanda, I too am a girl’s girl who will respectfully state that I am #TeamAndi. Plus, the fact that Nick himself said the things written about him, both flattering and not, “aren’t fictional; there is at least some accuracy to them, so it’s hard to imagine that’s not the case for Josh.” Regardless, I’m a firm believer that being with the wrong person will bring out the worst in you. (In my own experience, for example, one ex and I had phenomenal chemistry but clashed so hard that we fought every day to the point where I never before so seriously contemplated throwing a plate at someone’s face. Meanwhile, with Andy it’s unicorns and rainbows 99.9 percent of the time.) My thoughts on Josh-Amanda-Nick-Andi-gate may be frustratingly PC, but they’re honest. As juicy as it would be to say one person in particular is the devil incarnate, the only thing worthy of condemning is compatibility and the lack thereof. Odds are, everyone is great in their own way.

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“The only thing that was ever wrong with me was my belief that something was wrong with me.” (c)

barish

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“The only thing that was ever wrong with me was my belief that something was wrong with me.” (c)

barish

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“The only thing that was ever wrong with me was my belief that something was wrong with me.” (c)

barish

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“The only thing that was ever wrong with me was my belief that something was wrong with me.” (c)

barish

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“The only thing that was ever wrong with me was my belief that something was wrong with me.” (c)

barish

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“The only thing that was ever wrong with me was my belief that something was wrong with me.” (c)

barish

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“The only thing that was ever wrong with me was my belief that something was wrong with me.” (c)

barish

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“The only thing that was ever wrong with me was my belief that something was wrong with me.” (c)

barish

THE RELATIONSHIP STAKES ARE HIGH ON ABC’S ‘BACHELOR IN PARADISE’

“Episode 303A” – The third day in the gorgeous town of Sayulita, Mexico,

picks up after the dramatic cliffhanger, on the next episode of the highly anticipated “Bachelor in Paradise,” MONDAY, AUGUST 15 (8:00–10:00 p.m. EDT).

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“The only thing that was ever wrong with me was my belief that something was wrong with me.” (c)

barish

A newly single, yet ever hopeful, bachelor makes a desperate plea for the heart of a taken woman. With the girls in power this week, the remaining cast members prepare for a cocktail party with the unattached bachelors realizing they will have to bring their A-game, or risk being sent home.

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“The only thing that was ever wrong with me was my belief that something was wrong with me.” (c)

barish

Heading into the second rose ceremony, a Paradise vet remains caught in a love triangle, torn between the “perfect on paper” bachelor with a heart of gold and the more mysterious one. Another undecided bachelorette is questioning whether a new connection is worth exploring, or if she should save a friend who deserves a chance to find love.

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“The only thing that was ever wrong with me was my belief that something was wrong with me.” (c)

barish

And a newly single bachelorette contemplates her options.

During the cocktail party, a rejected bachelor makes a point to warn his former love interest that the man she is dating might not be who she thinks he is. This once confident bachelorette takes the warning to heart and is left confused, concerned and doubting her relationship heading into the rose ceremony. The rose ceremony comes to a close, and while some bachelors are left feeling confident and some are feeling hopeful, ultimately two smitten bachelors are shocked to find out that their feelings were one-sided, and are sent home.

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“The only thing that was ever wrong with me was my belief that something was wrong with me.” (c)

barish

Waking up the morning after the rose ceremony, it is clear that Paradise is working and love is in the air, as our couples continue to develop their relationships. But the peaceful atmosphere is quickly shattered when a gorgeous, well-known, and totally unexpected bachelorette arrives in Paradise with a date card. When she asks out a popular bachelor, he is thrilled to accept, which leaves his recent love-connection back at the house, stunned and unsure about their future.

Not letting the drama back at the house set the tone for their date, the new couple sets off to enjoy a picturesque date horseback riding along the beach – complete with stunning views, gorgeous sunsets and plenty of romance!

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“The only thing that was ever wrong with me was my belief that something was wrong with me.” (c)

barish

In a Paradise first, a double-date card arrives and two party-loving, tequila-shooting couples head out for a wild night on the town.

But will this fun-loving foursome prove to be too much for Mexico to handle? Meanwhile, two unattached bachelorettes take matters into their own hands and arrange a double date of their own with two potential suitors. But things take a shocking turn when one overly excited bachelor goes to extreme measures to win back his former fling, and his desperate actions bring both his crush and the medics rushing to his bedside!
With the previous night’s drama behind them, all appears calm and peaceful in Paradise, but perhaps this is the calm before the storm, as the arrival of an infamous bachelorette threatens to bring lots of drama, and plenty of tears, to Playa Escondida.

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“The only thing that was ever wrong with me was my belief that something was wrong with me.” (c)

barish

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“The only thing that was ever wrong with me was my belief that something was wrong with me.” (c)

Cheerio

Очевидно Шарлин не встречалась с ЗВ. :D Проблема не в compatibility, проблема в том, что мы слишком много пытаемся привести людей к общему знаменателю (нравится - не нравится), вместо того, чтобы понять их в разных категориях их личности. Т.е. нельзя ставить крест на человеке руководствуясь примитивным подходом, если же вы знаете что делаете, то не только можно, но иногда и необходимо. Хотя всё это относительно.

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- I thought I knew what to do. I failed.
- Good. Now go fail again.

barish

Мне понравилось как написала Шарлин. Обошла все острые углы, никого не сделала неправым. Страсти кипят на форуме, там уже десятки страниц исписаны разными мнениями, вон Аманда писала, что ненависть на нее льется отовсюду. А мы всего лишь смотрим то, что нам состряпали, видя только верхушку айсберга, где нам каждого преподносят каким то определенным образом и через отношения с другими людьми. За кадром остается очень много фактов, нам всего не показывают для создания интриг.
Для меня как раз оценка "нравится - не нравится" одна из самых приемлемых, но только так и надо писать, а не то, что кто то козел, придурок и проч. Потому что это восприятие отдельного человека. Как известно, при взаимодействии различных химических элементов происходят разные реакции. Так и тут, все смотрят вроде одно и то же, но реагируют по разному, поскольку у каждого свое восприятие.
Вот, например, если бы Карли говорила, что ЕЙ Эван не подходит, то это одно, а не то, что он такой, сякой, неправильный. Карли вообще себя так ведет, как будто она самая правильная. Если близняшка Хэйли для нее скучная, то для кого то может оказаться именно то, что надо, вон Аманда с ней дружит и для нее она то, что надо.

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“The only thing that was ever wrong with me was my belief that something was wrong with me.” (c)

barish

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“The only thing that was ever wrong with me was my belief that something was wrong with me.” (c)

barish

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“The only thing that was ever wrong with me was my belief that something was wrong with me.” (c)