Американский Холостяк #19 Chris Soules

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Chris, Whitney и Carly:

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Just so happens the winner is a frontrunner in the race for the Bachelor’s heart, and she leaves the other five women in the dust.
Britt и Jillian:

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Chris spends a romantic night with the winner and leaves the other five women in the dust.
An amorous mood is set at dinner overlooking the glittering city by the bay, and Chris has a chance to find out about another side of this stunning beauty. Will she capture his heart or leave without a rose?

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The cocktail party leads to more revelations and confrontations, as one woman questions Chris’ motives for being here and he, in return, delivers a blunt message to the rest of the bachelorettes.
Anxiety fills the cocktail party, as one of the women wants to make sure that Chris really understood the eye-opening message she delivered at the campsite and another questions him about the type of women who he considers rose-worthy. But one jealous lady has had her fill, and in a dramatic confrontation, accuses the Bachelor of not being there “for the right reasons.” However, Chris takes matters into his own hands and stuns the rest of the remaining bachelorettes with a serious announcement.

At the end of the evening, 11 women remain in the chase to capture Chris’ heart.

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“The only thing that was ever wrong with me was my belief that something was wrong with me.” (c)

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В субботу Блэйк Шелтон изображал в SNL Холостяка, было прикольно!!!

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“The only thing that was ever wrong with me was my belief that something was wrong with me.” (c)

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Chris Soules's Bachelor Blog: 'Come on People, It Was Just a Tush!'

I'd probably say it wasn't until my fourth week as the Bachelor that I finally felt like I'd stopped dreaming and that this was actually happening. I wanted my first date that week to be something I normally do, and as a big fan of the outdoors, camping has always been a huge part of my life. Now, I don't think the girls would have ever expected to spend a night in the wilderness when they signed up for mansion life, so it was really important for me to see who could roll with the punches and just be natural.

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Driving up to the lake in our vintage cars was so much fun. But every time I looked over at the other car – the one that was being driven by Megan – the darn thing was all over the road. Megan, you're a great girl. And a terrible driver.

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Arriving at the lake, I could tell that most of the girls were really excited to let loose. I had no idea that Kelsey was so miserable. She put on a very brave face whenever she was around me, and I totally thought she was having fun. If I had known she felt like she was in a "hellhole" I would have never asked her to come on the date. At the very least, she wouldn't have gotten stung by a bee on the, uh, "upper thigh."

In contrast, Kaitlyn was clearly having a blast.
Now, I know there's been a lot of reaction to Kaitlyn's little mooning trick off the dock, but what you don't know is that the whole group of us was playing Truth or Dare. She was dared to do that and took on the challenge, as did Ashley I. with her bikini top. It's a classic camping game, and it was all in good fun. Come on people, it was just a tush!

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Back at the house, my incredible sisters showed up to meet the girls who stayed back. My sisters Lori and Lisa both live in the Chicago area, but Jaci flew all the way from Ireland just to meet these girls. I should take this opportunity to explain to you what a huge influence my sisters have had on my life. I learned everything I know, especially about women, from them. They're all successful, smart, beautiful, and they're great wives and mothers. I think one of the reasons I'm still single is because I'm constantly trying to find women who live up to the examples they've set for me, and that's not easy to find. They're truly phenomenal women.
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Back in the wilderness, things were getting a little crazy. The whiskey was flowing and the full moon was out. And I'm not just talking about Kaitlyn's bum.

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<center></center>Speaking of a little crazy, let's talk about Ashley S. Everyone keeps asking me about her. Truth is, the week before she had been totally normal, and I was excited that night to really get to know her better. Whether it was the full moon or the camping vibe, something brought out Ashley S.'s, uh, "eccentric" side. When we did sit down to talk, she tried to have a deep conversation with me. The only problem was that I had absolutely no idea what she was saying.
<center></center>And then she told me she loved me. Yeah, that was uncomfortable. I honestly didn't know how to respond. I wasn't really flattered because I knew what she was saying wasn't true; it was the full moon talking! That conversation was definitely the last straw in my relationship with Ashley S.

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Around the campfire, everyone was having a good time. I had even brought a little portable hot tub to heat things up a little, but unfortunately the rangers wouldn't let me light it. So, the hot tub was more of a cold tub. Regardless, I spent some quality time with the women that night, and when it came time to hand out the rose, I didn't know what to do. As usual, I went with my heart. I know some of the girls were irritated because Kaitlyn had just gone on a one-on-one date with me the week before, but I was just trying to be real and do what felt right.

Later that night, I was shocked when Ashley I. snuck into my tent. I was deep in sleep. That's the thing about being the Bachelor. People come knocking at all hours, and you can't exactly tell them you're tired and you'll call them in the morning. Now, maybe I was a little foggy from a night of drinking whiskey around the campfire, but I did not get what Ashley I. was trying to tell me. Here's a little lesson for you ladies: Men are pretty simple when it comes to words. If you have something to tell us, like say, I don't know, that you're a virgin, just tell us! Spell it out for us. Maybe even write it down so we don't forget it. We don't work well with subtlety. If she had just come right out and told me, she would have avoided a lot of the anxiety she felt the rest of the week.

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“The only thing that was ever wrong with me was my belief that something was wrong with me.” (c)

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The next day I had a surprise Cinderella date with the girl my sisters chose. I legitimately had no idea who they were going to pick. What you didn't get to see was that my sisters actually came over to my place and told me about their meetings with the girls. They told me their opinions on all the women, and their words resonated with me throughout my whole journey. It was a pretty emotional conversation.
Another thing you didn't get to see was that I had private waltz lessons leading up to this date. I'm a farmer. I don't dance the waltz. I don't go to royal balls. I farm s---. Thankfully, my dance instructor was pretty darn patient, and after a couple hour-long lessons, I had the simple steps down. I was still pretty nervous that I was going to mess it up, so I insisted on having just about anyone who walked by (female and male) practice with me.

When I saw Jade at the top of that staircase, I couldn't help but smile. The girl truly looked like a fairytale princess. I was thrilled that my sisters chose her because she was someone I really wanted to get to know better. I realized that night what a sweet girl she was, and we definitely had a connection.
<center></center>Dancing with her in that ballroom, with the Los Angeles Chamber Orchestra playing the soundtrack to Cinderella was probably one of the most romantic moments of my life. We totally nailed that dance, even on that small platform! I was really worried I was going to take a wrong step and fall off and kill one of those musicians! But I didn't. Instead, I transformed from Prince Farming into Prince Charming, and Jade was my perfect princess. But before we knew it, the clock struck midnight, and she had to leave. I wonder what she would have turned into if she hadn't left on time?

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The next day, I was really excited to meet the girls in San Francisco for the MuckFest MS Muck Run. I love any type of competition, especially when it raises money for a good cause. The girls looked adorable in their wedding dresses and, even though it was all in fun, seeing them in those gowns made me realize I might be walking down the aisle with one of them one day! That was crazy.

Prior to the race, I took off my beloved Hugo Boss dress shoes and threw on some running shoes. Unfortunately, that was the last time I saw those shoes. I accidentally left them there in the parking lot. If anyone has my boat-sized Hugo Boss shoes, send them off to Arlington, Iowa. They'll make it back to my place, no problem. And I'll owe you one! Enough about my lost footwear. So as soon as the race began, we all quickly realized none of us stood a chance against Jillian's athleticism. Jillian had it in the bag. So I decided to take the opportunity to help some of the girls out and to get to know them better. Becca and I had a great chat and felt an instant connection, and that was the moment I knew she was going to be around for a long time. Spoiler? Stay tuned.

I was truly looking forward to my one-on-one date with Jillian. It was an incredible setting there at the Fairmont. Apparently even a number of Presidents have stayed in that particular suite, including President Kennedy, who may have snuck out the secret library door to spend time with a special someone. Too cool!

Sadly, sitting down at dinner with Jillian, something just didn't feel right. We were in one of the most romantic settings I'd ever been, overlooking the beautiful San Francisco skyline, and honestly I just wasn't feeling it. I'm not sure if it's because I couldn't get a word in edgewise, or if it was because the chemistry was just not there, but I knew in my gut that Jillian wasn't the one for me. I couldn't in good conscience give her that rose. Saying goodbye to her was not easy, but I'd have been lying to both of us if I had kept her around. I know Jillian felt like she wishes she'd opened up more, but it wasn't even that. The two of us were just not meant to be, and I'm sure she'll find someone perfect for her. And that person could probably bench press me!

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At the cocktail party before the rose ceremony things felt weird. There was tension in the air, Phil Collins-style. First, Ashley I. came out and told me she was a virgin. I was not expecting that. I definitely didn't realize that's what she was trying to get at during our camping conversation.
<center></center>The truth is though, it didn't bother me that she's a virgin. I actually respect it. Obviously intimacy is a very important part of any relationship, but I would never judge someone – nor would I make my decision of whom to date – based on someone's virginity status.

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The hardest part of that night was obviously my conversation with Britt.

As you could tell, I was caught off guard and quite literally speechless. I felt like I was being attacked for going with my gut. I really wish the girls hadn't judged me based on my relationships with the other girls and would just focus on the relationship I had with them individually. That's why in my speech at the end of the evening, I told them that if they questioned my intentions, they were free to leave. Thankfully, nobody did. And maybe I overreacted a little, but it really did hurt to have my integrity questioned.

Finally, it was difficult to say goodbye to Nikki, and especially to Juelia, but as soon as I knew there wasn't that connection with Juelia, I wanted her to be back with her daughter. As for Ashley S., I really wanted to give her the benefit of the doubt, but since she felt "nothing," I know I made the right decision.

Next week things get a little nutty. One woman I already sent home comes back. One woman almost gets naked right in front of me. And one woman actually passes out! It's crazy!!!
– Chris

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Sharleen Joynt on The Bachelor: Episode 4:

Hoo boy. Just when I think I couldn’t be any more simultaneously entertained and offended by an episode, The Bachelor strikes again. Casting really outdid themselves this season in terms of girls who would bring drama. This includes—but isn’t limited to—ladies who aren’t afraid to strip down (and ruffle feathers), pout when things don’t go their way and/or talk about each other behind their backs.

I have to vent about this whole virginity thing. Since when does being a virgin suddenly make you “wife material”? Furthermore, how does the opposite of being a virgin automatically equate to promiscuity? To me, your choice to abstain is perfectly respectable, but should be your own business. It’s not the business of a man you’ve just met, particularly not as a tool to make him see you differently. It’s especially not the business of millions of Americans. I also believe that the more at peace you are with your decision - with any decision - the less you need to talk about it. Ashley I.’s constant agonizing made me feel like this is something that has sadly become a part of her identity. Also, her insinuation that other girls who haven’t abstained are therefore promiscuous reeked of judgment and bitterness. The whole thing made me feel a bit sad for her rather than make me respect her more, the latter of which I think was her intention. Ashley I. singlehandedly made “virgin” the drinking game word of Episode 4.

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My frontrunners this week are…

1. Kaitlyn, 29: Nabbing a group date rose is never to be underestimated, especially when, like Kaitlyn, you’re two for two. Kaitlyn is a major frontrunner. Since Night One, she hasn’t gone into a single rose ceremony without a rose already, which beats even Nikki Ferrell proportions. In my season, Nikki got two group date roses in a row and then a one-on-one date rose in episodes three, four, and five, respectively. Add to that the fact that Chris shut down Britt HARD when she attempted to bad mouth Kaitlyn. His reaction really showed where his loyalty and affection lay. Of course, I’m all for this, since Kaitlyn is fun, cool, and makes for great television.

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2. Whitney, 29: Whitney is such a class act. Remember last week, when I said she only really appears when Chris and the cameras come to her? Case in point: this week she was hardly featured at all, as should be the case right after your one-on-one. She’s had her time in the sun and lets the other girls have their shot. This shows her immense confidence - but never arrogance - in both her relationship with Chris AND in herself as a woman. Combine that with her one-on-one last week being one of the most chemistry-filled I’ve ever seen. Whitney stays.

Да, Whitney мне нравится все больше и больше!

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3. Jade, 28: It was not at all surprising that Jade received the highly-coveted Cinderella (cross-marketing, much?) one-on-one, awarded by Chris’ three discerning sisters. Yes, she’s very sweet and demure, but she’s articulate. Best of all, she’s modest. She seemed almost embarrassed by all the attention she received, yet never ungrateful. I’m not sure I totally buy their chemistry, but their one-on-one really had a “first date” feel to it which I appreciate; they were just getting to know each other rather than jumping into conversations about how many kids they each want, as has a tendency to occur on these over-the-top dates. I like Jade.
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4. Becca, 25: Another class act. How glorious was it that, in response to Ashley I.’s “virgin” debacle, Becca simply and quietly said, “Samesies.” Becca is comfortable and secure with her decision and doesn’t need to advertise it. She realizes her abstinence is her choice and it shouldn’t make any difference in how a man views her. Becca doesn’t seek out attention, doesn’t use her time to talk about other girls, but rather, relies on her ability to carry a conversation. Thumbs up.

Бекка мне тоже нравится.

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Samantha Steffen ‏@SammiSteffen · Jan 25
One of the best memories at #thebachelor mansion. If you haven't played the post it note game - dooo it ✌️🙆

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Криса готовят к шоу:

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Cерьезно???
Не помню, чтобы мне какой то холостяк очень сильно нравился, но Крис для меня все что угодно, но не HOT!!!

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